At Last . . .

So it really hasn't been long at all, but I feel like saying, "Our photos are finally done!" Today, I got the best email ever from our photographer, the lovely & talented Maureen of Sullivan Studios. It informed me that our online gallery of images is up & running. It contains 417 images, and good lord, are they ever amazing! Of course, my favorites are of my goddaughter, but there are some great ones of me & the Mr.

It's mocking me

The top layer of our beautiful and delicious wedding cake is safely ensconced in several layers of Saran Wrap and nestled in a plastic container we got from the Container Store which happens to be the perfect size. It sits on the top shelf of our freezer.
The problem is that every time I open the freezer, it's sitting there, staring at me. It's calling to me, whispering, "Eat me!" a la Alice in Wonderland.

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I don't know if I can make it to our 1 year anniversary. Or more accurately, I don't know if our cake will make it that long.

Shoe Sale!!

Today, I went on a frantic search for shoes. I've been looking for shoes for the wedding for months now. I've looked at so many shoes, I've grown tired of looking at shoes. Never thought that could happen... I love shoes ... love looking at them, trying them on, talking about them...
So the reason I was frantically looking today is this - I just wanted it to be over! I had a few requirements: (1) heel height no less than 4" because my dress can't be hemmed easily, (2) d'orsay or peep toe style (3) ivory, silver or purple in color.
Today, I visited DSW with no luck - I only found strappy sandals in the right color & height. I was on my way to the Cherry Creek shopping center when I realized I didn't want to deal with the "rich" mall. Instead I went to Town Center at Aurora. I really don't love that mall, but they have a Macy's and I felt like making a trip to Macy's. That ended up being a bust so I decided to wander around. Dillards was having a big sale - 40% off already reduced prices. I really didn't expect to find anything, so imagine my surprise when I saw these:

The front
And from the side

I know, they aren't the right color... those are blue, not ivory or silver or purple. But they met the first two (and IMO more important) criteria. And the price was right. With tax, 20 bucks. They originally retailed at $102 before tax.
Honestly, when I bought them, I was completely unsure if I loved them. Then later, at the dentist (yeah, weird place for an epiphany), I realized what they reminded me of. . . they're kinda like these:
Yeah, those are the Manolos from the SATC movie.

So, what do you think? Jakob was a bit surprised when I told him I bought blue shoes for the wedding.... The same shoes come in ivory, but at $102, I think I may just go with the blue ones.

Veil Distress

After falling in love with Sara Gabriel's birdcage veils, but not her prices, I decided to go the DIY route. I found a place in Denver called Allyn's that sells French veil and purchased a yard. My first attempt fell flat. At first I wanted the veil to come to just below my nose, but after deciding on the angled design instead, I didn't have enough material to make it work.
Back to Allyn's I went. This time I got a yard & a half just to be safe. I stopped by a wig shop and got a styrofoam mannequin head. I had a plan - a great plan! I'd just use the mannequin, material & some bent quilting pins to try out placement before sewing it all together. I pinned my design but decided to wait a few days before sewing anything - just to make sure I was happy with the total effect.
Today I picked up the mannequin head only to find my cat had made a few modifications to my design. Apparently, she likes French food - or at least French veiling. I finally figured out exactly how I wanted this thing to look (and it took me a long time), and now there are holes all in it. Even the extra I purchased is ruined.
I was so angry and upset and frustrated that I actually sat down on the floor and started crying. I'm sure just the overall stress of paying for and planning a wedding that is just over two months away also has a lot to do with my mini-meltdown.
Jakob came home and asked what was wrong. I told him what Montana had done, and he laughed. Yeah, it kinda put it in perspective. I'm still frustrated and not looking forward to having to re-do all the work I've done, but it's not the end of the world.

Dressing Up the Boys

I'm totally tuxedo-challenged. We went to men's wearhouse, and it wasn't that hard once we figured out a few things. We didn't want tails - it's a daytime wedding - so then the biggest thing was to choose between one-button, two-button, and three-button. The main difference is how much of the vest will be showing (if you're going with vests). We ended up going with the two button style (I think) and then just picked what kind of lapel we wanted. They'll have pictures of the two types (notch or shawl) Notch lapels look more like suits - that's the one we chose.
I would suggest you bring swatches of your bridesmaids dress if you have them. . . it makes it a lot easier to pick out colors for the groomsmen's ties and vests. They have swatches of those for you to look at, and if you don't have the bridesmaids dresses picked out already, I believe you can make changes until just a few weeks before the wedding.
Then they'll have you pick out pocket squares, cufflinks, shoes, shirts, etc. but it's not as hard as it seems once you get in there and see the options.
We had to put down a $40 deposit (which will be applied to the cost of FI's tux) for the wedding party. They "opened a ticket" on our wedding party with everyone's names, the style tux each guy would be wearing, color of vest & tie, cufflinks, shoes, everything.
If you sign up for their email list, you get $20 off the price of your tux rental & a coupon for $25 off your next purchase. We used the coupon that day to buy the pocket squares for each of the groomsmen & Jakob.
Mens Wearhouse also has a program where if you rent four tuxes, the groom's is free. We opted to give our free rental to our ringbearer for a couple of reasons. . . I think it's outrageous that a tux for a 2 1/2 year old is the same price as one for a grown man. Also, his mom is one of my bridesmaids, so it cuts her some slack since she's already paying for a dress.

Casper Goes to Hawaii?

Jakob works for a major airline that recognizes your "registered domestic partner" (or RDP) and extends flight benefits to this person. In our case, I get to fly (nearly) for free. If we were a same sex couple, not only would I get flight benefits, I'd also be eligible for his health benefits.
Another major perk is the occasional deals employees get offered. Take this for a great example. . . yesterday, Jakob came home with an memo offering all employees of said airline access to the company's vacation packages at a wholesale rate. If we choose to take advantage of it, we will save over $3500 on the package. Wanna hear the details? It's six days, five nights in Cancun, Mexico. We would have a year to use our package. Included in package is: all meals & drinks included 24 hours a day, free oceanfront resort upgrade, and unlimited non-motor watersports. Did I mention it would only cost us $148 per person (and if we were bringing kids, they'd stay & eat for FREE) ???
Yeah, it's a great deal, and would totally solve our dilemma of where to go on our honeymoon (and more importantly, how to afford it). Jakob's grandmother had a condo in Cancun, so his family has been down there several times. I've never been out of the country - even to Mexico.
So what do you think? Should we spend our honeymoon sipping margaritas and trying to get some color to my "friendly ghost" legs? Or should we wait til we can afford a really kick-a$$ honeymoon to somewhere like Fiji or Thailand? Or should we do both since the Cancun trip is so freaking cheap?

DIY Invitations

We finally settled on an invitation suite. I told you about the ones I loved but couldn't justify the price. I thought about designing them from scratch, actually was pretty set on that. But in the end, we decided to buy invitation kits from Michaels. Yeah, that's right. . . the arts & crafts place. They're not really what I had in mind from the start, but I like them - a lot. They're simple & elegant and, let's face it - at the end of their journey from box to printer to envelope to guest, they'll probably be tossed in the trash. (Shh, don't tell them that!)
"So what do they look like?"
This:

I didn't bother blurring out names or any other information since this is just a photo of the example invite that comes with the kit.
Of course, they come completely disassembled. I'll post step-by-step instructions as we assemble them along with tips on how you can customize or create a similar design from scratch.

To Bee or Not to Bee

I said I was going to take the weekend to decide whether or not I will apply to be a Bee on Weddingbee again, but I've made up my mind. I will not apply again. The more I think about it, the more I realize my beliefs and my friendships are more important than my wish to become a bee. I was going to call and ask my Carey (yeah, I call him "my Carey" - it's a long story) how he felt about it, since he's probably the most outspoken of my friends on the issue of legalizing gay marriage. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized I couldn't put him in that position. "Hey, there's this thing that I really really want to do, but it will make money for a company that isn't very gay friendly - is it okay with you if I do it anyway?"
I mean, really. . . how selfish would that be? And how would he answer? "No, I'm really not okay with that." That answer may cause some uncomfortable moments. "Yeah, cool... go for it." But I'd always wonder if he was just saying that because he wanted me to be happy. Typically, Carey's a brutally honest person, but there'd always be this nagging voice in my head telling me I really hurt his feelings and he's just too good a friend to say anything.

Edit 10/15/08
The real test was this: I decided after posting this entry that I would blog as if I were reapplying for weddingbee for a couple of weeks. That was 11 days ago, and I wrote exactly ONE entry - I had to really make myself write that one. So I know I made the right decision. . . I'll blog because I want to and I'll feel good about it because I'm not making money for anyone whose business practices appall me.

Second Guessing

"I'll take that one. . . . no, no wait - that one. Maybe this one is better. What do you think?"

Lately, I've been second guessing every decision I've made in my wedding planning process. I told you about my wedding dress and how much I love, love, love it. For the past two weeks, I've been rethinking everything from the length of my wedding dress to the color palette. I've been driving myself crazy over whether the color & style of the bridesmaids dresses will look good on all three of them. I worried about the invitations, worrying about the seating charts, even wondering if we should have looked at more venues before deciding on one.

What about you? Are you as indecisive as I am?

Mrs. Bee's Big News

Yesterday, Mrs. Bee of WeddingBee made a big announcement: She has sold Weddingbee to eHarmony. This sale will make her life a lot less hectic and allow her to concentrate on the fun part of Weddingbee. She still retains full editorial control. While eHarmony "owns" the site, at this point it appears nothing will change as far as the content, selection process or diversity of brides (and grooms like Mr. Mango). Sadly, some of the Bees will be leaving the site due to their concerns about the partnership between WeddingBee and eHarmony. Mrs. Gingerbread, one of Weddingbee's bloggers, says it much more eloquently that I could, so it is, in her words:

I am concerned with eHarmony’s heavy involvement from 2000-2005 with Focus on the Family, an organization that promotes unscientific conversion therapies of LGBTQ people and homosexuality as a mental illness. I know that as both a member of the LGBTQ community and as a psychologist, that this rhetoric and these practices have and continue to cause a lot of harm to LGBTQ people. I am not sure that I can be involved with a company that in any way is associated with an organization that promotes this type of practice. Eharmony has distanced themselves from Focus on the Family for the past few years, but I worry that this is more of a business decision rather than an actual change of heart. I believe that their current company practices support my concerns.

The other reason for concern among many Bees is eHarmony's policy against same-sex matching. My previous post There's Nothing Wrong With Adam & Steve makes my views on same-sex marriage pretty obvious. To read views from Mrs. Bee, Mrs. Creampuff, Miss Sweet Tea, and a response from Stan Holt, VP of Publishing at eHarmony, check out this post on Weddingbee.
Someone from the audience says, "And how do you feel about this, Loralie?"
Well, that's a valid question, and I don't have an answer for it. I'm still very up in the air about the whole thing, and I have questions. . . like "Will eHarmony make money from my visiting the Weddingbee site?" and "If so, can I break myself of the addiction of visiting several times per day?"
About a month ago, I applied to be a blogger for Weddingbee. I wasn't chosen, but no hard feelings. The night I received the decision from the panel, I decided then and there I would apply again after the four week mandatory waiting period (much longer than that three day wait to buy a gun). So my four weeks are up but I'm going to keep my application to myself for a few more days so I can get some answers to my questions and make the best informed decision possible.

There's nothing wrong with Adam & Steve

Although it's pretty obvious this issue doesn't affect me in the most direct & personal way, the legalization of gay marriage is one very near & dear to my heart. Jakob and I both have quite a few friends who are LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer -or Questioning). I've seen real relationships between same sex partners, and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that their love is as real as mine is for Jakob. So why do I get to marry the person I love when they're not allowed to do the same?

A very good friend of mine who lives in Florida recently told me about an amendment on the ballot November 4th called amendment 2. Basically the passing of this amendment would forever close the door to the legalization of gay marriage in that state. It makes me feel kinda dumb to admit this, but I just don't get it. I don't get why some people are so adamant about not allowing LGBTQ people to marry.

If you really want to protect the "sanctity of marriage", make divorce illegal. In my eyes, divorce is much more an affront to its sanctity than allowing Barry* & Bill* to tie the knot.

We don't choose who we fall in love with. . . if we did, you'd never hear about the high society heiress engaged to the plumber's assistant or a powerful attorney falling for the waitress at the local diner. I think we can all agree on this - so it's not that big a leap in reasoning to say my friend Tess* didn't choose to fall in love with Layla* - she just did. And there's nothing wrong with that. They make each other happy - in their hearts, they are married and they plan to have children at some point in the future. I've seen them together many times, and every single time, I see how much they love one another and how happy they are. I wish I knew more heterosexual couples who were that in love - I think the world would be a happier place.

I read the website of a group supporting the passage of Amendment 2, and while it made me angry, it also made me sad. It made me sad because I think it must be very dark inside such a closed mind. On their FAQ page, I read this:

Are you saying gays cannot be good parents?

Two men might each be a good father, but neither can be a mother. The ideal for children is the love and nurturing of both a mom and a dad. No same-sex couple can provide that. So the question becomes, which parent is not important for a child, a mom or a dad?

It is obvious to me that the person who wrote this does not have any personal experience with gay parents. And is there really a difference between a mother's love and a father's love for their child? Sometimes the father is the disciplinarian, sometimes it's the mother. Sometimes mom is the softie, sometimes it's dad. A good parent loves their children - period. Genitalia doesn't affect this fact.

According to this line of reasoning, a child who has a parent who dies cannot and will not receive the love and nurturing he/she needs & deserves. Perhaps we should pass a law requiring the widowed parent to remarry within a few months or assign the family a "replacement" parent of the appropriate (ie opposite) sex.

Someone from the audience says, "Oh, come on...... that's crazy!"

Yeah, it is crazy. What an insane idea. . . . and that's why, if you live in Florida, I encourage you to vote NO on Amendment 2

*Names have been changed to protect the privacy of those I love*

Real STDs

A few weeks ago, I talked about Save the Date magnets. Since some of our guests are aware of my blog, I didn't reveal what ours specifically looked like. Now that they've been delivered, I can share with you without spoiling the surprise. This is a copy of the proof we received via email. Initially, we didn't order a proof (yes, it was risky, but we proofread and proofread and proofread again before submitting our order). Because of the size of the artwork, they had to rearrange the line breaks, and sent us a proof -free of charge- before printing them. So, without further ado, our STD:

At first, Jakob was dead set against sending out Save the Dates - he saw it as an unnecessary expense. You can imagine my surprise when I came home from work one day and he called me over to look at "what he'd found". Apparently, he had done some research into why STDs are typically sent out, and once he discovered the benefits for people planning a destination wedding, he was sold. Although technically it won't be a DW for us, it is for 95% of our guests, who will be flying in from Louisiana.
So after deciding STDs were a good idea, he used my good friend Google to find some options. His favorite was Favors You Keep, home of all the cute cartoon magnets options I showed you before. To encourage his participation in the process, he got to pick out the design while we decided on the colors together. His input is very important to me - I fully intend on using an extra hand for writing thank you notes later! I fear I may have created a monster since now, he has become VERY involved!

E Photos take 2

Since the weather didn't exactly cooperate with us last time we met with our photographer for engagement photos, we met with her again on Wednesday. This time, we met in the morning and were able to get in a solid two hours of time with her. We met at St Catherine's again to take a few more photos since we loved the way the stone church looked. Did I mention we arranged to meet at 8am? Yes sir, that's mighty early. When you factor in our drive time (close to 2 hours), and it was a very long morning for us!

The second time around, both of us were more relaxed in front of the camera. I can't tell you how happy I am that we decided to do a "take two" with Maureen. Not only was the weather beautiful, but we had so much fun! We jumped across creeks (okay, so it was more of a ditch) and climbed over barbed wire fences and up rocks. . . did I mention I was wearing a skirt? And yes, it was all in pursuit of a great photo which will be matted and used as a "guest book" at our reception.

Maureen told us at the end of the day that it would take a week or two for her to edit the photos and post them to an online gallery. . . I can't wait!

E Photos

Yesterday, Jakob and I had our engagement photo shoot with Maureen Sullivan of Sullivan Photography. We met in Lyons, and at out first location, an autumn storm moved in, raining us out. We were able to get a few shots in before driving to our second location. Luckily, the weather in Colorado is ever changing - rainstorms blow in quickly, and just as quickly out. Our second location was St Catherine's church near Estes Park. It's this great old stone church with Mt. Meeker in the background. For photos of the church, click here. I'm glad we decided to keep going, since at our third and final location (for the day) we got some great shots with the most incredible rainbow in the background.

Maureen is incredible - she's so full of life and so much fun to be around. She made our engagement shoot a lot of fun, and had some great locations chosen. She even offered to finish the shoot next week since the weather wasn't cooperating for much of it. Naturally, I took her up on her offer, so we have another meeting with her this Wednesday at 8 am. Since we have appointments at 11am and 1pm in Estes, we're meeting Maureen at St. Catherine's and will make a day of it. As soon as we have the photos back, I'll share them with you!

The Opposites Game

We've finally decided on a baker. In my last post, I told you a little about Colorado Rose Cake Company, our vendor of choice. I love that their cakes are four layers of cake with three layers of filling. That definitely makes their cakes stand out among the competition. The best part is we didn't have to make all the decisions about what we wanted for our wedding cake that day. it's a good thing, because I don't think I could have! Going into our meeting, I planned on an ivory cake (to match my dress) with lavender ribbon (to match my bridesmaids' dresses). I pictured something like this:

I also wanted some simple scrollwork just above the ribbon. I was sure I knew exactly what I wanted and there would be no changing my mind.
Then I saw these:
China Lace
I love how the design on this one covers the top of each tier and folds down over the sides. Instead of chocolate icing, we would go with lavender or platinum (ish) icing.
White Mountains
How perfect would this be for our Rocky Mountain wedding? It would definitely be a unique cake.
So you tell me. . . which cake should we go with - the elegant China Lace or the rustic White Mountains?

I heart cake

This morning, through a fortuitous chain of events, Jakob & I were able to schedule a cake tasting. In case you're counting - yes, this is number 4. This one was with Colorado Rose Cake Company in Berthoud, Colorado. If you're planning a wedding in along the front range, this place is definitely worth a visit.

Their cakes consist of four layers of cake with three layers of filling. For information on cake. filling, and icing flavors offered, check out their Information page.

Our tasting this morning included seven yummy options:

(clockwise from top left): Butter Pecan cake with Bavarian Cream filling & buttercream icing, Yellow cake with Apricot Mango filling & whipped icing, Spice cake with Apple filling & buttercream icing, Pumpkin cake with Bavarian Cream filling & buttercream icing, Almond Poppyseed cake with Raspberry filling & buttercream icing, Almond Cherry Cake with Cherry filling & whipped icing, and Chocolate-Chocolate Chip cake with Mocha filling & buttercream icing. We were also able to try their cream cheese mints, which are sold by the pound and are used as favors for your guests.

Normally, Jakob doesn't like anything pecan, so imagine my surprise when he actually liked the butter pecan cake! I'm a typical Southern girl - love my pecans! Not so typical of the South is my love of mango, so of course I was excited about the second cake we tasted, yellow with apricot mango filling. Both of us liked this one too - looks like choosing may be challenging. Jakob adored the spice cake with apple - me, not so much so. Neither of us cared for the pumpkin. The almond cherry with cherry filling - I'll admit I was a little nervous about this one. The last time we tried a cake with cherry filling, we loved it but were afraid it may be too strong a cherry flavor for our guests; and this one was cherry cake AND cherry filling. Luckily it wasn't overwhelmingly cherry-ish! That only left the chocolate-chocolate chip with mocha. Both of us were trying to keep an open mind about the idea of chocolate cake, but I had barely started chewing when I blurted out, "Too much chocolate!" So, once again, chocolate was an easy one to scratch off our list.

Later, I will let you know which cake company we have decided to go with. First, let's talk about how I found the four companies where we scheduled consultations. First, we were given a list of preferred vendors from the Stanley Hotel, way back when we were going to have the wedding there. That's where I got the contact information for Colorado Rose and Kim & Company. Later, I decided I should broaden my search area to find more potential vendors. For that, I turned to my trusty friend Google. (Yes, when a question arises that I cannot answer, my response is almost always, "Let's Google it!") That's where I found Tee & Cakes and Cakes by Karen, both located in Boulder. Cakes by Karen actually has four other locations as well, one of which is in Denver.
Another invaluable resource has been the website for the Estes Park Wedding Association. I consider myself lucky that the town we chose for our wedding has its own wedding association & website with vendor listings. I highly suggest you check for the existence of one in your town. Before you think, "There's no way - my town is too small," let me tell you a little about Estes Park. Nestled in the Rocky Mountains, Estes Park has an area of just 5.9 square miles and its population in 2000 was just over 5,000 people. Granted, there are a lot of wedding there due to the beauty of the scenery and the ambiance of the town. But if there's one thing I've learned on this crazy roller coaster called wedding planning, it's that it never hurts to ask!

Previous cake posts:
C is for Cake (Cakes by Karen, Boulder/Denver)
Virgin Wedding (Tee & Cakes, Boulder)
It's Finally Here (Kim & Company, Estes Park)

Will you wear a pink taffeta dress for my wedding?

A couple of months ago, my MOH and I went dress shopping for bridesmaids dresses. Because of my great experience at Pearls Place when I went shopping for my wedding dress, we went there and let Lisa work her magic. She already knew what my dress looked like, so we just asked her to pick out some dresses that were complimentary. We narrowed our choices down to two:

Sorry, I have no idea who designed this dress, but it's modeled by my fabulous MOH. And yes, she always has sunglasses on - the only time I can remember her not wearing shades was the day she got married. We teased her about getting some white sunglasses to match her dress.


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In the end, this is the one we decided to go with. After reviewing the photos we took that day, she decided dress #1 actually fit her better, so I don't remember why we opted for this one. These are the stock photos from Jasmine Bridal. Their dresses will be lavender ice with platinum accent.

I love the way the chiffon accent falls down the the hemline. I'm actually kinda jealous I can't have one too!

STD Fever

We have STDs! (Save the Dates, that is.) The ever-so-wonderful FedEx man delivered them early yesterday morning while I was at my management meeting. Jakob was just opening them when I got home. Normally, I would be putting a photo of what they look like right here:


But since today I sent out a mass email letting friends & family know about the existence of this blog, I will not be posting pictures of them. I want everyone to see them for the first time when they open the envelope. Instead, I will tell you we ordered them from Favors You Keep and show you some other designs we considered before deciding on the one I'm so happy about.

This one was just too cute. If the two dogs looked like Max & Simba, I would have been all over this design.


When I was little I secretly wanted to be a mermaid when I grew up, but in the end, we decided against this one. While Jakob loves to scuba dive, I have a huge fear of drowning, so we felt it would have been an inaccurate representation of us. Yeah, I don't know how I planned to reconcile the drowning thing with being a mermaid - although if you think about it, it's impossible for a mermaid to drown, so it's the perfect career move for me!


This one was a close second. It's a cartoon rendering of the Denver skyline. Since we haven't been residents of Denver for long, we honestly don't know what a lot of the elements in this one are, and figured someone was bound to ask us, "Hey, what's that?" In the end, our inability to answer that potential question was what made us scratch this one off the list.

Favors You Keep makes the whole customization process super easy. You figure out whether you want black and white or color cartoons, choose you design, paper color, ink color, type in your wording, and you're done! (If you opt for color cartoons, it also allows you to customize your hair color & skin tone) After we placed our order, we received an email saying they needed to move a word or two down a line, so they sent us a free email proof to approve before printing them.

Are you doing something a little unconventional for your save the dates?

C is for Cake

Jakob & I managed to squeeze in a cake tasting this morning between my manager's meeting at 9am and work at 1pm. Luckily, the bakery we went to has five locations in the Denver area. Cakes by Karen is a little more expensive than the other bakeries we've tried, and their delivery charge to Estes Park is the highest, but one of their flavors intrigued me, so I had to try it.
While driving home from work tonight, I realized that I've been telling you about the results of our cake tastings, but if you've never been to one, you may not know what to expect. In our experience, this is what typically goes on. Sometimes you're asked to look at the list of available flavors and choose the ones you'd like to try. At the tasting itself, cakes are brought out - often in the form of cupcakes. You are given time to taste the options and talk among yourselves before the baker or consultant discusses the nitty-gritty: pricing, servings, flavors, and decor. You are given the opportunity to ask any questions you may have. One thing I like to do is see photos of cakes actually decorated by the person who will be doing our cake. It's nice to look through a book of ideas, but if the person who will be decorating YOUR cake is unable to execute those designs properly, it's just a waste of time. And while, yes, I want our wedding cake to be delicious, I also want it to be beautiful.

Unlike our previous tastings, Cakes by Karen actually baked us an entire little cake in each of the flavors we chose to test out. A slice of each type was cut for each of us:

Strawberry cake with pineapple filling & champagne cake with strawberry filling.

Lemon cake with raspberry filling, white cake with cherry filling.

First up is strawberry cake with pineapple filling. Jakob LOVES pineapple, so I figured we should have at least one cake with pineapple something. He was a bit apprehensive about strawberry (pink) cake but after we tasted it, we really liked it, and he said he could get over the unconventional color in exchange for pineapple filling.
According to the person I spoke to from Cakes by Karen, champagne cake with strawberry filling is their most popular cake. Not so much for us. There wasn't anything particularly spectacular about it -in fact, something about the combo reminded us of Pez - great for candy, but kinda weird for cake.
The lemon cake with raspberry filling was totally for me. I love lemon cake as much as he loves pineapple. Originally I wanted to try the lemon cake with lemon filling, but was told that may be too much lemon. Too much lemon?? There's no such thing! So since I like raspberry, we tried it that way, and it was incredible! The sweetness of the raspberry was the perfect juxtaposition to the lemony goodness of the cake! We've found a winner!
Last but not least is the white cake with cherry filling. Both of us really liked it - the lightness of the cake didn't compete with the cherry flavor, which was a real cherry, not maraschino taste. In the end, we crossed this one off the list - both of us really like cherries, but we recognize not everyone does.
Bonus points for Cakes by Karen - although we did not get to keep the rest of the cakes (yes, greedy little ol' me was hoping), we were offered a piece of each to take home. Needless to say, I gladly accepted.

At Last

We have our first signed contract! Jakob & I made a trip to Estes Park last week. We signed our contract for our fabulous venue, Marys Lake Lodge, and put down a deposit. I feel unbelievably relieved. If nothing else is accomplished, we have a place to get married!


This is the site of our outdoor ceremony:

Naturally, there will be chairs and an aisle and all that jazz. Hopefully there will even be a bit of snow!


And our reception site:

I love the fireplace with double mantle. On the lower mantle we'll have candles, and the upper one will be decorated with flowers. This is the basic setup. For our reception, we will have ivory chair covers, not white and chair sashes to coordinate with our colors. We may even have colored table covers. Unfortunately, Marys Lake Lodge only has white chair covers and no chair sashes, but gave me the name of a rental company they use. Add another item to my list of "things to research".

My question for you today is this: How did you get from "what it is" to "what it could be" with your ceremony and/or reception site? Did you visualize it spontaneously or need inspiration?